How confident?

Salam,

How confident you are that ALLAH will answer your prayer? The other day, someone that I know who I consider wara' since he was young passed a remark to me; "You make me realised that when I say my doa I'm only 50++% cofidence that ALLAH may answer my doa.You're like 99% confidence". Hey bro...what happened to the other 1%? Muahaha....

Seriously, me and my husband really surprised with that remark! Bukan apa, brader tu adalah seorang yang sangat menjaga solat, berpuasa sunat dan suka memberi nasihat. Sangat2 jauh banyak amal nya berbanding saya. Kenapa tidak 100% yakin bahawa ALLAH akan mengabulkan doanya?

Prinsip saya mudah sahaja, saya bukan seorang hamba ALLAH yang taat, saya sangat banyak dosa, saya sangat banyak kesalahan and you can even call me fasik or munafik, I don't mind. Tetapi walau siapa pun saya...saya tetap hamba ALLAH yang sangat2 bergantung kepadaNya. Saya tidak boleh lari dari Nya kerana dia tetap tuhan saya. Tuhan orang2 yang Muslim dan yang kafir. Dia lah Tuhan yang maha pengasih dan maha penyayang. Dia maha kaya dan tidak akan miskin jika Dia mengabulkan doa saya. Hanya Dia lah yang saya ada.

"Berdoalah kamu kepadaKu nescaya Aku perkenankan doa permohonan kamu". Surah Al-Ghaafir ayat 60

How confident  are you?

I'm soooo tempted!!!!

Tempted betul lah akak ni nak beri free advice masa kat Supermarket hari tu. Sebab nya ada customer tanya kat promoter pasal spaghetti sauce Prego. Seems like promoter tu pun bukan lah biasa sangat tentang sos tu.

Just feel like giving free info to the other customer but I have to refrain myself from doing so....let the promoter does her own job and me....mind my own business! ( Susah betul nak control EGO ni rupa nya ~~~)

Regret

Salam,

Someone told me that he has a regret. Otherwise, his children might have a better life and he probably has a better post. Well....I think it is normal that we have regret in life. That is what makes us human.

However, my advice to him was.... just let go. We cannot bring our time back and rest assured that Allah knows what is best for him. His life is good at the moment and the only problem, he is comparing it with his friends.

Don't carry our regret as it does not do any good to our present life. Nothing ever happened in the past that can prevent us from being present now; and if the past cannot prevent us from being present now, what power does it have?

Move on.

Selamat Hari Guru

Selamat hari guru kepada semua guru2. Saya tahu bukan mudah untuk jadi guru kerana kalau saya mengajar anak saya sendiri pun kepala saya pusing pening macam mana nak bagi anak saya faham. Jadi saya salute kepada semua guru2!

Hari ini saya sangat rindu pada guru2 saya terutamanya guru2 sekolah rendah saya yang saya percaya sudah lama pencen atau pun mungkin sudah tiada lagi di bumi Allah ini. Semoga kalian semua berada di dalam lindungan dan rahmat ALLAH s.w.t. Aaminn.

Terima kasih dan saya sayang kepada semua!

Free advice

I just feel a little bit bad today. Voluntarily, I gave a free advice to someone which obviously my advice was not welcomed . I also should have known better that;

1) I'm judging too fast...which I shouldn't do
2) Free advice is a sign of ego. ~ my ego.
3) If people don't ask it, they do not want it.

I promised myself to be well aware and better luck next time!

Happy Mother's Day!

 Picture paints a thousand words... celebrating Mother's day with friends. We really enjoy ourselves b'cos we deserved it. :)

Good or bad?

Hmmm...nak cakap pun x kena. All this while I'm always telling myself to stop labeling things or situations.Good or bad, I just go with the flow. Alhamdulillah cos Kak Nyah berjaya mendapat tempat di UiTM untuk jurusan Asasi TESL. That is her first choice. Isn't that great?

But.....oh oh...there is but Nik Daniyah!!!! Dia kena melapor diri di UiTM Alor Gajah, Melaka. Mak aiii...jauh nya. Letih lah nak mengkesahkan anak2 ni. Sorang dah ada kat Gombak, sorang lagi kat Muadzam Shah dan yang sorang ni nanti kat Alor Gajah....

Emak dan ayah pun nak pitam....

Stop judging!

Salam.

I learned something and I wish I could share with y'all. I'm practicing it and hope I can continue to do so.

Have you ever see someone that you don't even know their names but you're judging them? I bet you do and we all do! Kadangkala kalau terjumpa orang yang gemuk, tentu kita sangka dia kuat makan. Kalau orang ada kereta besar, kita kata menunjuk2. Kalau ada perempuan yang terlebih gaya, kita kata perasan lawa. Walaupun tak pernah kita ungkapkan tetapi itu lah yang berkeliaran di minda kita. Kalau tidak percaya, cuba kita pergi pasaraya dan tunggu di tempat orang lalu lalang. Be aware of what your mind says.  Same thing if we see status update in the Facebook. We just couldn't help it!

So, next time if we meet people we know or we don't know....please stop judging them. Just look at them and don't say anything or don't even think anything. You will realize that life is better that way. Thru time you will feel how liberated you are!

Selamat mencuba :)

Rasulullah saw. bersabda: Hindarilah oleh kamu sekalian berburuk sangka karena buruk sangka adalah ucapan yang paling dusta. Janganlah kamu sekalian saling memata-matai yang lain, janganlah saling mencari-cari aib yang lain, janganlah kamu saling bersaing (kemegahan dunia), janganlah kamu saling mendengki dan janganlah kamu saling membenci dan janganlah kamu saling bermusuhan tetapi jadilah hamba-hamba Allah yang bersaudara. (Hadis riwayat Abu Hurairah ra.)