Monday, February 16, 2009

Confrontation

Some tips learned today on confrontations. Actually these tips are from Oprah's show today. The topic is on how divorce actually left the children hurt for rest of their lives. I think these tips can also applicable to our daily life.

1-Set the intention before the confrontation.
2-Define the rules
3-Don't attack
4-Be specific
5-Resolve for the future.

To tell you the truth, I hate confrontation myself. Sometimes, certain things are better left unsaid.
I am not good at expressing myself. Most of the time I'm emotional. Who can think clearly with clench fist anyway. Better cool off and find something better to do.

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